Never Your Light Be Darkness

8 of 12 Series: Sanctuary Made Simple and Relevant Today

Icon:  Seven Candle Stand

Icebreaker:

  1. What makes your day?
  2. How do you spend your week, month year?
  3. What is your basic goals to reach each day?

Challenge:

  1. If you have something really good, do you let others know about it or just keep it secret?
  2. If you are a “light”, do you shine day and night?
  3. If you are a “light”, do you share your light 24/7?
  4. What is your best excuse for not “walking” the “walk of Christ”?

Let’s go deeper.

The divine Son of God is seen walking amid the seven golden candlesticks. Jesus Himself supplies the oil to these burning lamps. He it is that kindles the flame. “In him was life; and the life was the light of men.” John 1:4. No candlestick, no church, shines of itself. From Christ emanates all its light. . . . The Lord God Almighty and the Lamb are the light thereof.  {FLB 280.3}

How can you who repeat the Lord’s prayer, “Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven,” sit at ease in your homes without helping to carry the torch of truth to others? How can you lift up your hands before God and ask His blessing upon yourselves and your families, when you are doing so little to help others?–Historical Sketches, p. 288.  {ChS 90.3}

THINK:

Are you a walking “light of truth”? Do people in your community know?

  1. What are your resolutions about being the “living light” in your worship of God?

Ex. When I go and worship God I must make sure that I lived as a true disciple of Christ 24/7.

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2. What is your group collective affirmation about being the “golden candle stick” in worshiping God?

Ex. Every time our Family/Group /Church will worship God. We will…

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Hands-On Activity

See direction on how to do below.

Practical Reverence:

The two classes of watchers represent the two classes who profess to be waiting for their Lord. They are called virgins because they profess a pure faith. By the lamps is represented the word of God. The psalmist says, “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto may path. Psalms 119:105.

Unwarranted Excuses      When Jesus went away, He left to every man his work, and “nothing to do” is an unwarrantable excuse. “Nothing to do” is the reason of trial among the brethren; for Satan will fill the minds of idlers with his own plans, and set them to work. . . . “Nothing to do” brings evil testimony against the brethren, and dissension into the church of Christ. Jesus says, “He that gathereth not with Me scattereth abroad.”–Review and Herald, March 13, 1888.  {ChS 108.1}

You are the light, Christ is the Life

You are not to shut yourselves up to yourselves, and be content because you have been blessed with a knowledge of the truth. Who brought the truth to you? Who showed the light of the Word of God to you? God has not given you His light to be placed under a bushel. I have read of an expedition that was sent out in search of Sir John Franklin. Brave men left their homes, and wandered about in the North Seas, suffering privation, hunger, cold, and distress. And what was it all for?–Merely for the honor of discovering the dead bodies of the explorers, or, if possible, to rescue some of the party from the terrible death that must surely come upon them, unless help should reach them in time. If they could but save one man from perishing, they would count their suffering well paid for. This was done at the sacrifice of all their comfort and happiness.  {ChS 93.1}

     I saw jets of light shining from cities and villages, and from the high places and the low places of the earth. God’s word was obeyed, and as a result there were memorials for Him in every city and village. His truth was proclaimed throughout the world.–Testimonies, vol. 9, pp. 28, 29.  {ChS 112.2}

The remnant church are called to go through an experience similar to that of the Jews, and the True Witness, who walks up and down in the midst of the seven golden candlesticks, has a solemn message to bear to His people. He says, “I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent.” The love of God has been waning in the church, and as a result the love of self has sprung up into new activity. With the loss of love for God, there has come the loss of love for the brethren. The church may meet all the description that is given of the Ephesian church, and yet fail in vital godliness..”–Ms. 154, 1897, pp. 3-7. (“God’s Messengers,” undated.)  {5MR 52.2}

Every case is coming in review before God; for he is measuring the temple of God, and the worshipers therein..”  {1888 1116.1}

Applied Spirituality

Were you swallowed by the 7 deadly sins? You are called the “light” and a “walking Gospel, what do you think hinders you in your worship of God? How much have you set aside for yourself and for God? Your body temple does it have “light”? If yes, is it shining 24/7?

Practical means to offer acceptable worship with our service being a whole body temple.

Who do I worship with my life?

Refer to your response in the worksheet on the ‘Face it’ section.

When do I worship in vain with my ‘light’?

I want you to remember, my friends, what happened to our ancestors who followed Moses. They were all under the protection of the cloud, and all passed safely through the Red Sea. In the cloud and in the sea they were all baptized as followers of Moses. All ate the same spiritual bread and drank the same spiritual drink. They drank from the spiritual rock that went with them; and that rock was Christ himself. But even then God was not pleased with most of them, and so their dead bodies were scattered over the desert. Now, all of this is an example for us, to warn us not to desire evil things, as they did, 1Corinthians 10:1-6 

How do I worship God with my ‘light’?

Your word is a lamp to guide me and a light for my path. Psalms 119:105 

How do I worship Jesus with my ‘light’?

“I am the light of the world,” he said. “Whoever follows me will have the light of life and will never walk in darkness.” John 8:12 

How do I worship in Spirit and in Truth?

Make certain, then, that the light in you is not darkness.  Luke 11:35 

The Word Reincarnate

Insert your name or your appropriate pronoun on the blank and watch how the Word become flesh.

Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, “I am the light of the world. _______ who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.” John 8:12

For _________ was once darkness, but now ________ is light in the Lord. Walk as children of light Ephesians 5:8

Therefore He says: “Awake, _________ who sleep, arise from the dead, and Christ will give ________ light.” Ephesians 5:14

That __________ may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, Philippians 2:15

“Let ________’s light so shine before men, that they may see _______ ‘s your good works and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16

But ________ a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that ________ may proclaim the praises of Him who called h__ out of darkness into His marvelous light; 1 Peter 2:9

But if ________ walks in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses _______ from all sin. 1 John 1:7

“_________ is  the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden  Matthew 5:14

Let us understand The Light of the World, so we can fully grasp what we need to do as we worship the Holy God.

In summary:

Every believer is given 10,080 minutes given per week. you were once in darkness, now you are given the ‘light of Life”. Make sure you always have “Oil”(Holy Spirit) in you. Keep shining to all you meet, and go to dark places that they may have your ‘light’ too.

Are you ready to learn more about the Sanctuary and its relevance to our life? See you in the next study.

Display Stand: What Do I Have Inside?

7 of 12 Series: Sanctuary Made Simple and Relevant Today

Icon:  Table of Shewbread

Icebreaker:

  1. What is your favorite food? Why?
  2. What is the best food diet for you? Why?
  3. What food do you dream to taste?
  4. What food have you eaten that you were not supposed to?

Challenge:

  1. What is the connection of the food you eat to honoring God?
  2. Why do we have to regulate our diet?
  3. What “food” have you been eating that glorifies God?

Let’s go deeper.

Does the food you take help make the presence of Christ more visible? Yes or No, why?

THINK:

Do you eat to satisfy your appetite or do you eat to be healthy?

  1. What are your resolutions about “eating the food that signifies God’s presence in your body” before, during or after you worship God?

Ex. When I go and worship God I must make sure that the food and drinks I take affirms the presence of god in me….

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2. What is your group collective affirmation about worshiping God with regards to food?

Ex. Every time our Family/Group /Church will worship God. We will…

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Hands-On Activity

Make a list of foods or dishes or recipes that give you health and respects your Creator God.

Make a list of foods or dishes or recipes that satisfies your appetite but condemns the body to illness.

Practical Reverence:

Upon the table of shewbread were twelve cakes or loaves of unleavened bread, one loaf for each of the twelve tribes. These were placed in two rows or piles with frankincense placed on top of them (Lev. 24:5-8). “On the top of each row there was a golden dish with frankincense, which was burned before the Lord, as a memorial, at the end of the week, when the old loaves were removed and replaced by new ones . . .” Ex. 25:30. Frankincense was considered a valuable spice and was one of the gifts the Magi gave to baby Jesus (Matt. 2:1, 2, 11). It was burnt with many offerings and was one of the ingredients of the incense burnt in the Sanctuary.

Each loaf was made from two tenths deals or ephah of fine flour. This is about 3.6 quarts (4 litres approx.). As these cakes were unleavened and they were to be eaten by the priests a week old, they would have to be very large, flat cakes similar to tortillas etc., not loaves as we commonly think of bread today. “Shew-bread . . . literally, bread of faces; so called, either because they were placed before the presence or face of God in the sanctuary, or because they were made square, as the Jews will have it.” Ex. 25:20. In Numbers 4:7 the shewbread is called “the continual bread” and the NIV translates shewbread as “the bread of the Presence”. The shewbread represents Jesus Christ the “living bread which came down from heaven” and the “bread of life.” (Matt. 6:51; John 6:35.)

The showbread was kept ever before the Lord as a perpetual offering. . . . It was called showbread, or “bread of the presence,” because it was ever before the face of the Lord. It was an acknowledgment of man’s dependence upon God for both temporal and spiritual food, and that it is received only through the mediation of Christ. . . . Both the manna and the showbread pointed to Christ, the living bread, who is ever in the presence of God for us.  {FLB 197.2}

You are the Bread Table, Christ is the Bread

     “I will dwell among the children of Israel, and will be their God,” “and the tabernacle shall be sanctified by my glory” (Ex. 29:45, 43), was the assurance given to Moses.  {FLB 192.2}

     In the building of the sanctuary as a dwelling place for God, Moses was directed to make all things according to the pattern of things in the heavens. God called him into the mount, and revealed to him the heavenly things, and in their similitude the tabernacle, with all that pertained to it, was fashioned.  {FLB 192.3}

     But this ideal they were, in themselves, powerless to attain. The revelation at Sinai could only impress them with their need and helplessness. Another lesson the tabernacle, through its service of sacrifice, was to teach--the lesson of pardon of sin, and power through the Saviour for obedience unto life.  {FLB 192.5}

     Through Christ was to be fulfilled the purpose of which the tabernacle was a symbol–that glorious building, its walls of glistening gold reflecting in rainbow hues the curtains in wrought with cherubim, the fragrance of ever-burning incense pervading all, the priests robed in spotless white, and in the deep mystery of the inner place, above the mercy seat, between the figures of the bowed, worshiping angels, the glory of the Holiest. In all, God desired His people to read His purpose for the human soul. It was the same purpose long afterward set forth by the apostle Paul, speaking by the Holy Spirit:  {FLB 192.6}

     “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” 1 Cor. 3:16, 17.   193 {The Faith I Live By 192.7}

Applied Spirituality

You are a “special display stand” for a very special Bread only, but do you place inside you other things that goes against with the will of God that youworship?

Practical means to offer acceptable worship with our service being a whole body temple.

Who do I worship with my hands?

Refer to your response in the worksheet on the ‘Face it’ section.

When do I worship in vain with the food I take?

Ye offer polluted bread upon mine altar. And ye say, Wherein have we polluted thee? In that ye say, The table of Jehovah is contemptible.  Malachi 1:7 

How do I worship God with the food I eat?

I But Jesus answered, “The scripture says,  ‘Human beings cannot live on bread alone, but need every word that God speaks.’ ”  Matthew 4:4 

How do I worship Jesus with my body?

“I am the bread of life,” Jesus told them. “Those who come to me will never be hungry; those who believe in me will never be thirsty. John 6:35  

How do I worship in Spirit and in Truth?

Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31

The Word Reincarnate

Insert your name or your appropriate pronoun on the blank and watch how the Word become flesh.

Whether, then, ________ eat or drink or whatever _____ do, _____do all to the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31

And Jesus said to ________, “I am the bread of life. ________ who comes to Me shall never hunger, and ________ who believes in Me shall never thirst.” John 6:35

“I am the living bread which came down from heaven. If ________ eats of this bread, ________ will live forever; and the bread that I shall give is My flesh, which I shall give for the life of the world. “John 6:51-58

Let us understand The Bread of Life, so we can fully grasp what we need to do before meeting the Holy God.

In summary:

So many tempting and salivating food out there. Admittedly, too hard to resist even though we know that it is not good for our body, and health. We rationalize, and back it up with biased scientific researches, just to justify our appetite. But, if your body is the temple of God, then you will maintain your temple worthy for the dwelling of the Holy God.

Are you ready to learn more about the Sanctuary and its relevance to our life? See you in the next study.

Shoes Off: Why Should I?

6 of 12 Series: Sanctuary Made Simple and Relevant Today

Icon:  Entrance

Icebreaker:

Place your shoes in front of you/ or the center of the group circle

Answer the following

  1. What’s in a shoe? Describe
  2. What do you like about your shoes?
  3. When and where ONLY do you wear your shoes? Why?
  4. When and where you take off your shoes? Why?

Challenge:

Shoes Off Policy: The priests were not allowed to enter the sanctuary with their shoes on their feet; for the particles of dust cleaving to them would desecrate the holy place. They were to leave their shoes in the court before entering the sanctuary, and also to wash their hands and their feet before ministering in the tabernacle or at the altar of burnt-offering. Thus was constantly taught the lesson that all defilement must be put away from those who would come into the presence of God.   174  {GW 173.3}

  1. Should this be practiced literally?
  2. Why one need to be “barefoot” when coming to God?
  3. What are the “shoes of defilement” of your life that you need to remove before facing God?

Let’s go deeper.

What should you LET GO during worship time? Name 3 and share why?

THINK: According to a study, our shoes are full of germs. In a research conducted by the University of Arizona, it has been found that there are about 421,000 bacteria present in a shoe. So you can calculate for yourself how many will be in a pair of shoes.

  1. What are your personal resolutions on “shoes off” issues as you worship your God?

Ex. When I approach God to worship I must TAKE OFF MY “SHOES of DEFILEMENT” such as….

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2. What is your group collective affirmation about “shoes off” policy in worshiping God?

Ex. Every time our Family/Group /Church will worship God. We will…

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Hands-On Activity

Make a “No Entry Sign” for thing that should not interfere with your worship time.

Practical Reverence:

Shoes Off Policy Culture

There are cultures that still exist and practice removing footwear before entering a house or a temple. People ask about the practice, was it about the footwear? Or was it about the feet? Or was it about the building? Or was it about hygiene and health issue? Or was it about respect? Or was it about character?

“Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men,  And He will dwell with them,  And they shall be His people,     And God Himself shall be with them,   And be their God.” Revelation 21:3.  {AA 592.3}

The Purpose of the Sanctuary

     And let them make me a sanctuary; that I may dwell among them. Ex. 25:8.  {FLB 192.1}

     “I will dwell among the children of Israel, and will be their God,” “and the tabernacle shall be sanctified by my glory” (Ex. 29:45, 43), was the assurance given to Moses.  {FLB 192.2}

     In the building of the sanctuary as a dwelling place for God, Moses was directed to make all things according to the pattern of things in the heavens. God called him into the mount, and revealed to him the heavenly things, and in their similitude the tabernacle, with all that pertained to it, was fashioned.  {FLB 192.3}

     So to Israel, whom He desired to make His dwelling place, He revealed His glorious ideal of character. The pattern was shown them in the mount when the law was given from Sinai. . . .  {FLB 192.4}

     But this ideal they were, in themselves, powerless to attain. The revelation at Sinai could only impress them with their need and helplessness. Another lesson the tabernacle, through its service of sacrifice, was to teach--the lesson of pardon of sin, and power through the Saviour for obedience unto life.  {FLB 192.5}

     Through Christ was to be fulfilled the purpose of which the tabernacle was a symbol–that glorious building, its walls of glistening gold reflecting in rainbow hues the curtains in wrought with cherubim, the fragrance of ever-burning incense pervading all, the priests robed in spotless white, and in the deep mystery of the inner place, above the mercy seat, between the figures of the bowed, worshiping angels, the glory of the Holiest. In all, God desired His people to read His purpose for the human soul. It was the same purpose long afterward set forth by the apostle Paul, speaking by the Holy Spirit:  {FLB 192.6}

     “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” 1 Cor. 3:16, 17.   193 {The Faith I Live By 192.7}

Applied Spirituality

Are you locked up in your own want, your own space, your own world, own life, your own business? Do these ” your own” encroached or takes over even in the “exclusive-for-God” time of worship?

Practical means to offer acceptable worship with our service being a whole body temple.

Who do I worship with my hands?

Refer to your response in the worksheet on the ‘Face it’ section.

When do I worship in vain with my life and service?

because that, knowing God, they glorified him not as God, neither gave thanks; but became vain in their reasoning, and their senseless heart was darkened. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, and changed the glory of the incorruptible God for the likeness of an image of corruptible man… Romans 1:20-23 

How do I worship God with my body and service?

I LORD, who may enter your Temple? Who may worship on Zion, your sacred hill?  Those who obey God in everything and always do what is right, whose words are true and sincere, and who do not slander others. They do no wrong to their friends nor spread rumors about their neighbors.  They despise those whom God rejects, but honor those who obey the LORD. They always do what they promise, no matter how much it may cost. They make loans without charging interest and cannot be bribed to testify against the innocent. Whoever does these things will always be secure. Psalms 15:1-5

How do I worship Jesus with my life and service?

 Wherefore if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature: the old things are passed away; behold, they are become new. 2Corinthians 5:17 

How do I worship in Spirit and in Truth?

Come as living stones, and let  yourselves be used in building the spiritual temple, where you will serve as holy priests to offer spiritual and acceptable sacrifices to God through  Jesus Christ.  1Peter 2:5 

The Word Reincarnate

Insert your name or your appropriate pronoun on the blank and watch how the Word become flesh.

“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” 1 Cor. 3:16, 17.   

And let ________ make me a sanctuary; that I may dwell among ____. Exodus. 25:8 

“Behold, the tabernacle of God is with _________,  And He will dwell with __________,  And _________ shall be His people,     And God Himself shall be with _________,   And be __________ God.” Revelation 21:3. 

Let us understand HOLINESS, so we can fully grasp what we need to do before meeting the Holy God.

In summary:

So many things we attached in our daily activities in life and we are caught in busyness.’ We have time for secular activities and spiritual activities. The secular time must not encroached and take over into your worship time.

Are you ready to learn more about the Sanctuary and its relevance to our life? See you in the next study.

Sanitize: Keeping My Soul Clean

5 of 12 Series: Sanctuary Made Simple and Relevant Today

Icon:  Laver

Icebreaker:

  1. Each will do a catwalk like a model with their best pose.
  2. Rate your body 1- 10, (10 as the highest and 1 as lowest)
  3. What is the basis of a perfect body?

Challenge:

  1. What is a clean body? When do you say that a body is clean?
  2. How does detoxification help maintain a clean body?
  3. Why “clear conscience” is better than outside appearance?

Let’s go deeper.

“He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit.” Titus 3:5

We are commanded to crucify the flesh, with the affections and lusts. How shall we do that? Shall we inflict pain on the body? No; but put to death the temptation to sin. The corrupt thought is to be expelled. Every thought is to be brought into captivity to Jesus Christ. . . . The love of God must reign supreme; Christ must occupy an undivided throne. Our bodies are to be regarded as His purchased possession. The members of the body are to become the instruments of righteousness.  {AG 97.2}

  1. What are your personal resolutions about “perfect beautiful body” issues as you worship your God?

Ex.  If my body is a temple of God then I MUST KEEP MY BODY CLEAN FROM…

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2. What is your group collective affirmation about “CLEAN BODY” policy in worshiping God?

Ex. Every time our Family/Group /Church will worship God, we will…

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Practical Reverence:

The Laver

At the laver the priests were to wash their hands and their feet whenever they went into the sacred apartments, or approached the altar to offer a burnt offering unto the Lord.  {Patriarchs & Prophets 347.3}

The laver was placed between the altar and the congregation, that before they came into the presence of God, in the sight of the congregation, they might wash their hands and their feet. What impression was this to make upon the people? It was to show them that every particle of dust must be put away before they could go into the presence of God; for he was so high and holy that unless they did comply with these conditions, death would follow. . . .  {GW92 162.2}     The Lord requires his ministers to be pure and holy, rightly to represent the principles of truth in their own lives, and by their example to bring others up upon a high level.  {Gospel Workers92 163.1}

     God requires all who profess to be his chosen people, though they are not teachers of the truth, to be careful to preserve personal cleanliness and purity, also cleanliness and order in their houses and upon their premises. We are examples to the world, living epistles known and read of all men. God requires all who profess godliness, and especially those who teach the truth to others, to abstain from all appearance of evil.–Vol. 2, p. 610.

  In short, be pure and holy, rightly to represent the principles of truth in our own lives, and by their example to bring others up upon a high level. Maintain personal cleanliness and purity and abstain from all appearance of evil, keep sanitizing self daily.

“Washing at the laver in the Mosaic dispensation corresponds in the Christian dispensation not only to the ordinance of baptism, but to the ordinance of feet washing, as instituted by Christ. John 13:12-17. This Christian service is as sacred as was that of olden time.

“As failure of a priest to wash before entering upon any service for the Lord meant death, Ex. 30:21,20, so to Peter’s refusal to let Christ wash his feet, Jesus said, ‘If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me.’ John 13:8. ‘The service that Peter refused was the type of a higher cleansing. Christ had come to wash the heart from the stain of sin. In refusing to allow Christ to wash his feet, Peter was refusing the higher cleansing included in the lower.’ DA 646. The failure of a priest to wash was as really rejecting the Lord as was Peter’s refusal, and the penalty in both cases was the same.. With what reverence and humility should we participate in the sacred ordinances that point back to the sacrifice made for us on Calvary, and symbolized at the altar and at the laver!

“This Christian ordinance of feet washing provides for continual cleansing, Jesus said to Peter, ‘He that is washed – laved or baptized – needeth not save to wash his feet.’ John 13:10. When defilement is contracted in our daily walk, we come again and again in this sacred ordinance, where we renew our baptismal vows and receive renewed forgiveness. Then the righteousness of Christ is once more imputed to us, and by faith in Him we are justified.”
The Path To The Throne Of God by Sarah Peck, page 43.

The living water which we all need to be washed with and cleansed from all unrighteousness is the Holy Spirit. “. . . Jesus stood and cried, saying, If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink. He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water. (But this spake he of the Spirit, which they that believe on him should receive: for the Holy Ghost was not yet given; because that Jesus was not yet glorified.)” John 7:37-39.

When Jesus Christ died upon the cross of Calvary a Roman soldier pierced his side to ensure that He was indeed dead. What flowed out? “But one of the soldiers with a spear pierced his side, and forthwith came there out blood and water.” John 19:34. The blood represents the blood that was placed on the horns of the altar of burnt offering, and the water represents the water in the laver. The blood cleanses us by the death and blood of Jesus Christ, the water washed the person clean from guilt.

Applied Application

Does outward cleanliness is more important than cleanliness of the conscience?

Practical means to offer acceptable worship with our service being a whole body temple.

Who do I worship with my body?

Refer to your response in the worksheet on the ‘Face it’ section.

When do I worship in vain with my washed body?

Do any of you think you are religious? If you do not control your tongue, your religion is worthless and you deceive yourself. What God the Father considers to be pure and genuine religion is this: to take care of orphans and widows in their suffering and to keep oneself from being corrupted by the world. James 1:26-27 

How do I worship God with baptism?

And this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also—not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ. 1Peter 3:21 

How do I worship Jesus with water and spirit?

“No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.” Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.” John 13:8  

How do I worship in Spirit and in Truth?

“He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit.” Titus 3:5 

The Word Reincarnate

Insert your name or your appropriate pronoun on the blank and watch how the Word become flesh.

“He who believes in Me, as the Scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.” John 7:38

“Then I will sprinkle clean water on ________, and _______ shall be clean; I will cleanse _______ from all  filthiness and from all h__ idols. I will give _______  a new heart and put a new spirit within h__; I will take the heart of stone out of h__ flesh and give h__ a heart of flesh. I will put My Spirit within _______  and cause h__ to walk in My statutes, and _______  will keep My judgments and do them.” Ezek 36:25-27

________ is already clean because of the word which I have spoken to h__.  John 15:3

Not by works of righteousness which ________ have done, but according to His mercy He saved _________, through the washing of regeneration (spiritual rebirth) and renewing of the Holy Spirit, Titus 3:5

Let __________ draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having _________’s hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience and _____’s body washed with pure water. Hebrews 10:22

Let us understand the WATER in the Laver, so we can fully grasp why we need to cleanse our body temple.

In summary:

The laver is a water container and it is a media to hold the water to help priests to be able to dust off dirt from their body. If you are the laver then you must be clean and allow the “Water” from God to cleanse you inside, and flow from you. While the act of washing is a symbolic mini baptism to wash our sins, the flowing of a living water out from us is the evidence of the fruits of the spirit in us. Keep sanitizing and maintaining a clean conscience is your acceptable worship.

Are you ready to learn more about the Sanctuary and its relevance in our life? See you in the next study.

Hand Over: When ‘Let Go, Let God’ is Most Difficult

4 of 12 Series: Sanctuary Made Simple and Relevant Today

Icon:  Altar of Offering

Icebreaker:

  1. Ask for the cherished possessions from each members
  2. Place them in the center of the group
  3. Ask everybody to close their eyes
  4. Start “pray” include “as I burn this possessions…”
  5. Note your member’s reactions! Process the feeling and reasons.

Challenge:

  1. You may let everything be lost except one thing, what would it be?  Why?
  2. What are your most beloved possessions? 
  3. Things you cannot live without?
  4. Something you cherished and have waited for long to come true or acquire?
  5. What will you do if someone will ask it from you? What will you do/say?

Let’s go deeper.

What should you LET GO during worship time? Name 3 and share why?

THINK: Nothing is too precious to God but you, and nothing is too precious to you but your cherished possessions. What is most important to God is your willingness to offer the best, yet this is blocked by your unwillingness to LET GO the thing you think is best for you.

  1. What is the best offering you need to “let go” when you worship your God?

Ex. When I worship God I must LET GO __________  however important it may be, my God must be my priority during my worship time.

____________________________________________________________________________

2. What is your family / group / church collective affirmation about OFFERING when worshiping God?

Ex. Every time our Family/Group /Church will worship God. We will…

_____________________________________________________________________________

Hands-On Activity

Question: How much time have you allotted, offered or given to God?

Practical Reverence:

The Hand Over: Lesson from Abraham and Saul

By faith Abraham when he was tried, offered up Isaac; and he that had received the promises offered up his only begotten son, . . . accounting that God was able to raise him up, even from the dead. Heb. 11:17-19.  {CC 56.1} 

  1. ABRAHAM AS GOOD EXAMPLE

Abraham believes in God and His promises no doubt about it, but how about in practice?  

     God had called Abraham to be the father of the faithful, and his life was to stand as an example of faith to succeeding generations. But his faith had not been perfect. He had shown distrust of God in concealing the fact that Sarah was his wife, and again in his marriage with Hagar. That he might reach the highest standard, God subjected him to another test, the closest which man was ever called to endure.  {CC 56.2}

     The Lord spoke unto him, saying: “Take now thy son, thine only son Isaac, whom thou lovest, ” “and offer him . . . for a burnt offering.” The heart of the old man stood still with horror. The loss of such a son by disease would have been most heartrending to the fond father, it would have bowed his whitened head with sorrow; but now he is commanded to shed the precious blood of that son with his own hand. It seemed to him a fearful impossibility. Yet God had spoken, and His word must be obeyed. Abraham was stricken in years, but this did not excuse him from duty. He grasped the staff of faith and in dumb agony took by the hand his child, beautiful in the rosy health of youth, and went out to obey the word of God. . . .  {CC 56.3}

     Abraham did not stop to question how God’s promises could be fulfilled if Isaac were slain. He did not stay to reason with his aching heart, but carried out the divine command to the very letter, till, just as the knife was about to be plunged into the quivering flesh of the child, the word came: “Lay not thine hand upon the lad;” “for now I know that thou fearest God, seeing thou hast not withheld thy son, thine only son from me.”  {CC 56.4}

     This act of faith in Abraham is recorded for our benefit. It teaches the great lesson of confidence in the requirements of God, however close and cutting they may be; and it teaches children perfect submission to their parents and to God. By Abraham’s obedience we are taught that nothing is too precious for us to give to God.  {CC 56.5}

  • SAUL AS BAD EXAMPLE

     God had directed that only those consecrated to the office should present sacrifices before Him. But Saul commanded, “Bring hither a burnt offering;” and, equipped as he was with armor and weapons of war, he approached the altar and offered sacrifice before God. . . . If Saul had fulfilled the conditions upon which divine help was promised, the Lord would have wrought a marvelous deliverance for Israel, with the few who were loyal to the king. But Saul was so well satisfied with himself and his work that he went out to meet the prophet as one who should be commended rather than disapproved.  {CC 151.2}

     Saul endeavored to vindicate his own course, and blamed the prophet, instead of condemning himself. There are today many who pursue a similar course. Like Saul they are blinded to their errors. When the Lord seeks to correct them, they receive reproof as insult, and find fault with the one who brings the divine message.  {CC 151.3}

     Had Saul been willing to see and confess his error, this bitter experience would have proved a safeguard for the future. He would afterward have avoided the mistakes which called forth divine reproof. But feeling that he was unjustly condemned, he would, of course, be likely again to commit the same sin.  {CC 151.4}

     The Lord would have His people, under all circumstances, manifest implicit trust in Him. Although we cannot always understand the workings of His providence, we should wait with patience and humility until He sees fit to enlighten us.  {CC 151.5}

     Saul’s transgression proved him unworthy to be entrusted with sacred responsibilities. . . . Had he patiently endured the divine test, the crown would have been confirmed to him and to his house. In fact, Samuel had come to Gilgal for this very purpose. But Saul had been weighed in the balance, and found wanting. He must be removed to make way for one who would sacredly regard the divine honor and authority.  {CC 151.6}

Applied Worship

Are you so tied up to money, career, job, talent, time, family matters that drags you back from ‘offering yourself to the fullest for God? How much service do you share upon others?

“Every morning and evening a lamb of a year old was burned upon the altar, with its appropriate meat offering, thus symbolizing the daily consecration of the nation to Jehovah, and their constant dependence upon the atoning blood of Christ. God expressly directed that every offering presented for the service of the sanctuary should be ‘without blemish.‘ Exodus 12:5. The priests were to examine all animals brought as a sacrifice, and were to reject every one in which a defect was discovered. Only an offering ‘without blemish’ could be a symbol of His perfect purity who was to offer Himself as ‘a lamb without blemish and without spot.’ 1 Peter 1:19. The apostle Paul points to these sacrifices as an illustration of what the followers of Christ are to become. He says, ‘I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.‘ Romans 12:1. We are to give ourselves to the service of God, and we should seek to make the offering as nearly perfect as possible. God will not be pleased with anything less than the best we can offer. Those who love Him with all the heart, will desire to give Him the best service of the life, and they will be constantly seeking to bring every power of their being into harmony with the laws that will promote their ability to do His will.” (Patriarchs and Prophets by E. G. White, page 352.)

Practical means to offer acceptable worship with our being a body temple.

Who do I worship with my hands?

Refer to your response in the worksheet on the ‘Face it’ section.

When do I worship in vain with my life and service?

It’s useless to bring your offerings. I am disgusted with the smell of the incense you burn. I cannot stand your New Moon Festivals, your Sabbaths, and your religious gatherings; they are all corrupted by your sins. Isaiah 1:13 

How do I worship God with my body and service?

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. Romans 12:1

How do I worship Jesus with my life and service?

 Jesus stood up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”  She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.”  John 8:10,11 

How do I worship in Spirit and in Truth?

Let us show gratitude, by which we may offer to God an acceptable service with reverence and awe.”

Hebrews 12:28

The Word Reincarnate

Insert your name or your appropriate pronoun on the blank and watch how the Word become flesh.

I beseech you therefore, ___________, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. Romans 12:1

Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of _______’s faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2 

And walk in love, as Christ also has loved _______ and given Himself for _________, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma. Ephesians 5:2 

And by Him to reconcile all things to Himself, by Him, whether things on earth or things in heaven, having made peace through the blood of His cross. And ________, who once were alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now He has reconciled in the body of His flesh through death, to present _________ holy, and blameless, and above reproach in His sight–Colossians 1:20-22

Let us understand SOUL, so we can fully grasp what we need to offer as acceptable and holy to God.

In summary:

Are you ready to learn more about the Sanctuary and its relevance to our life? See you in the next study.

Senses Sentinels: Guarding your Gates

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Icon:  Gate

Icebreaker:

  1. What’s a gate? Enumerate its purposes
  2. What do you like about gates
  3. Why do need to close a gate?
  4.  Should there always be guard on a gate?

Challenge:

  1. What are the “gates” of the human body?
  2. Name things that pass through these “gates”?
  3. When do you close these “gates”?
  4. Why do you need to guard these “gates”?
  5. Note your member’s reactions! Process the feeling and reasons.

Let’s go deeper.

  1. What are your personal resolutions about gate keepingissues as you worship your God?

Ex.  If my body is a temple of God then I MUST GUARD THE GATES OF MY SENSES FROM…

____________________________________________________________________________

2. What is your group / church collective affirmation about “guard your gate” policy in worshiping God?

Ex. Every time our Family/Group /Church will worship God. We will…

_____________________________________________________________________________

Practical Application:

If your senses are the gates into your holy body temple what are the things would you ban from entering?

The Gate

The ‘gates’ of your body temple are your senses. Many things come in through these ‘gates’ both good and bad for the soul. Anything good does not blemish the body temple, and anything unhealthy, unclean, immoral or unholy defiles the body temple.

What’s in a gate?

In the beginning, a gate was a place between two parts of a wall, or a fence which could be opened and closed to let people go through it.  In the Middle Ages, a city gate also allowed people to go into a (walled) city. Nowadays, people also talk about gates at airports. When going on an aircraft, people need to get together in a certain area of the airport first. They then pass through some kind of doorway to get onto the plane. That is what is called gate. {WIKI}

Respect is Reverence and Reverence is Respect

Jacob, after beholding the vision of the angels, exclaimed, “The Lord is in this place; and I knew it not. . . . This is none other but the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven.” Genesis 28:16, 17.  540 {Child Guidance  539.6}   

 “The Lord is in his holy temple: let all the earth keep silence before him.” Habakkuk 2:20.  {CG 540.1}    

Many . . . have no true appreciation of the sacredness of eternal things. Nearly all need to be taught how to conduct themselves in the house of God. Parents should not only teach, but command, their children to enter the sanctuary with sobriety and reverence.  {CG 540.2}

To Be Sober and Quiet.–Do not have so little reverence for the house and worship of God as to communicate with one another during the sermon. If those who commit this fault could see the angels of God looking upon them and marking their doings, they would be filled with shame and abhorrence of themselves. God wants attentive hearers. It was while men slept that the enemy sowed tares.  {CG 542.2}

Not to Act as in a Common Place.–There should be a sacred spot, like the sanctuary of old, where God is to meet with His people. That place should not be used as    The sacred and common are so blended that it is difficult to distinguish them.  {CG 542.3}

Practice Reverence Till It Becomes Habitual.– Reverence is greatly needed in the youth of this age. I am alarmed as I see children and youth of religious parents so heedless of the order and propriety that should be observed in the house of God. While God’s servants are presenting the words of life to the people, some will be reading, others whispering and laughing. Their eyes are sinning by diverting the attention of those around them. This habit, if allowed to remain unchecked, will grow and influence others.  {CG 546.2}    Children and youth should never feel that it is something to be proud of to be indifferent and careless in meetings where God is worshiped. God sees every irreverent thought or action, and it is registered in the books of heaven. He says, “I know thy works.” Nothing is hid from His all-searching eye. If you have formed in any degree the habit of inattention and indifference in the house of God, exercise the powers you have to correct it, and show that you have self-respect. Practice reverence until it becomes a part of yourself.  {CG 546.3}

Applied Reverence

If our body is the temple of God, then it has perimeter fence and gates and we keep watch the gates by guarding it and regulating what should enter the body temple. We give respect and reverence to the creation of God which is your body temple by keeping it sinless and healthy. Because the body is made holy, therefore, only declared clean should enter the temple through its senses. You may place security measures, regulation or moral filters to check if those entering your body temple is beneficial in maintaining a sinless, holy, happy soul. There is no law in doing good, and there’s a lot of don’t. Though we have with all good intentions a lot of laws for our own good, yet many hates because it curtailed their freedom. God has given us freedom of choice, so we can exercise our intelligence, wisdom, and judgment, God never controlled his own children. Most of the time, we took control of ourselves and would even control God.

Practical means to conduct worship with our senses as part of the whole body temple.

Who do I worship with my senses?

Refer to your response in the worksheet on the ‘Face it’ section.

When do I worship in vain with my senses?

Everything that belongs to the world—what the sinful self desires, what people see and want, and everything in this world that people are so proud of (materialism, narcissism, desires, unhealthy lifestyles, etc) —none of this comes from the Father; it all comes from the world. 1John 2:16 

How do I worship God with my senses?

“The Lord is in his holy temple: let all the earth keep silence (quiet down all your senses, and focus unto God) before him.” Habakkuk 2:20

How do I worship Jesus with my senses?

 Jesus said unto him, I am the way, and the truth, and the life: no one comes (no other else) to the Father, but by me. John 14:6

How do I worship in Spirit and in Truth?

Whatever is covered up will be  uncovered, and every secret will be  made known. So then, whatever you have said in the dark  will be heard in broad  daylight, and  whatever you have whispered in private in a closed room will be shouted from the housetops.(your body will reveal or expose the wrong done in itself e.g. unhealthy diet to body illnesses) Luke 12:3

The Word Reincarnate

Insert your name or your appropriate pronoun on the blank and watch how the Word become flesh.

The Lord is in his holy temple: let all the earth keep silence before him.” Habakkuk 2:20

“__________ be holy, because I (God) am holy.” 1 Peter 1:16

Jesus said to _________, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No ________  comes to the Father except through Me.  John 14:6

“Behold, the tabernacle of God is with _________,  and He will dwell with __________,  and _________ shall be His people, And God Himself shall be with _________, and be _________’s God.” Revelation 21:3. 

Let us understand SIN, so we can fully grasp what we need to watch out for to keep this body temple pure and sinless.

In summary:

The sacred and the common as well blended that it is very hard to distinguish them. Level up your security measure to protect it. When your guards are lenient and compromising at the gates of your body temple then sin will take control of you.

Are you ready to learn more about the Sanctuary and its relevance to our life? See you in the next study.

Incomplete is Never Complete

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You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. Matthew 5:48 ESV

Let the Bible speak about perfection

How do I know that I am already perfect?

Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins. Ecclesiastes 7:20 ESV

How will I know I am perfect?

until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ. Ephesians 4:13 ESV

What areas of my life should go through perfection?

For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. James 3:2 ESV

What is the goal of being perfect?

Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you. Philippians 3:12-15 ESV

When do we say I am already perfect?

And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. James 1:4 ESV

How do I know I am nearing perfection?

But whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: 1 John 2:5 ESV

That you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, Philippians 2:15 ESV

What to do with my hesitations and fear if I decide to go through the processes of being blameless and without blemish (perfect)?

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. 1 John 4:18 ESV

If I strive to be sinless (perfect), will the devil harm me?

We know that everyone who has been born of God does not keep on sinning, but he who was born of God protects him, and the evil one does not touch him. 1 John 5:18 ESV

What should my lifestyle be to be completely perfect?

But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing. James 1:25 ESV

What areas of my life that I should strive to keep away from sinning, so that my whole body remains sinless or perfect?

15 but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, 16 since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” 1 Peter 1:15-16 ESV

So, what then is the connection of my striving to perfection with God’s holiness?

16 since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” 1 Peter 1:15-17 ESV

Let’s see what holiness is.

Credit to The Bible Project team for this video

Stay with us as we continue to discover the magnificent Sanctuary of God as it directs us to its various parts which all link to our holistic endeavors to becoming sinless or as the Bible termed it ‘perfect’.

Do We Need Worship?

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God says “Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool.”  Isaiah 66:1

“Let the whole earth sing to the Lord! Each day proclaim the good news that he saves. Publish his glorious deeds among the nations. Tell everyone about the amazing things he does. Great is the Lord! He is most worthy of praise! He is to be feared above all gods. The gods of other nations are mere idols, but the Lord made the heavens! Honor and majesty surround him; strength and joy fill his dwelling. O nations of the world, recognize the Lord, recognize that the Lord is glorious and strong. Give to the Lord the glory he deserves! Bring your offering and come to worship him. Worship the Lord in all his holy splendor.”(1 Chronicles 16:23-29 NLT)

What is worship?

Worship is derived from the Anglo-Saxon meaning Worth-ship or Worthy

wor·ship (wʉrship) noun

reverence or devotion for a deity; religious homage or veneration

a church service or other rite showing this extreme devotion or intense love or admiration of any kind

transitive verb worshiped -·shiped or worshipped -·shipped, worshiping -·ship·ing or worshipping -·ship·ping

to show religious devotion or reverence for; adore as a deity

to have intense love or admiration for; adore or idolize

intransitive verb

to engage in worship, or perform an act of religious devotion; specif., to offer prayers, attend church services, etc.

a. The reverent love and devotion accorded a deity, an idol, or a sacred object.

b. The ceremonies, prayers, or other religious forms by which this love is expressed.

Ardent devotion; adoration.

often Worship Chiefly British Used as a form of address for magistrates, mayors, and certain other dignitaries: Your Worship.

verb worshiped wor·shiped or wor·shipped, worshiping wor·ship·ing or wor·ship·ping, wor·ships

verb, transitive

To honor and love as a deity.

To regard with ardent or adoring esteem or devotion. See Synonyms at revere1.

verb, intransitive

To participate in religious rites of worship.

To perform an act of worship.

Origin: Middle English worshipe, worthiness, honor, from Old English weorthscipe : weorth, worth; see worth 1 + -scipe, -ship.

What do we use to worship God?

  1. Is it the church building?
  2. Is it the materials and equipment you use for worship
  3. Is it our body and soul?

Yes, we use them all, all are necessary but one is most important. Which among the given is most important to God? Yes, the soul in the human body, and this body though sinful yet declared cleansed through the death of Christ (1 Cor 6:11). We therefore have to maintain sanctifies and pure because God would want to “dwell” or stay in and for the soul to be saved from destruction.

Yes, we congregate in our corporate worship and the purpose for that is for the ‘saints to fellowship together. Saints having fellowship together may strengthen, encourage each other in the Lord. But at the end of the day, salvation still individual. not because you are part of the congregation, you feel assured that you will also be saved. Belonging to denomination brand does not guarantee salvation. Salvation is through having a close relationship with Christ Jesus (Jn 14:6) and God the Father (Psalms 62:1)

Watch this to understand.

Credit to The Bible Project for this awesome work.

In short

Worship is a way of reconnecting back to God. After the fall of man into sin, God initiated the first move to be close to His most treasured creation the humans through love and grace. Man originally was the bearer of the image of God until sin came in. Sin made man and God distant, but God initiated the first effort to reach out and ask man to make Him a “dwelling place” that He may stay close with them. there are ceremonious task in keeping the tabernacle / temple clean and in this ceremonies man got caught into corruption. so to end this, Christ came and declared all cleansed through His blood making everyone God’s personal “living temple”. So, if you are having a relationship with God then you will make your body a temple really fit for God to dwell therein.

The holistic worship is an active act of honor and love to God having the whole being and body be engaged in worship. It mean the act of religious devotion is not limited to a day or holy hour of worship. The worship God is trying to tell and illustrate through the biblical tabernacle transcends to all aspects of our life ( 1Cor 10:31).

Sin has affected all aspects of our life and we think that sin is only in the heart or mind and it has nothing to do with my behavior, the food I eat, the clothes I wear or the way i deal with other people. Below is the diagram of the tabernacle a visual aid to point to us areas of our life that needs to be reformed, cleansed and sanctified through and by Christ. If I am having relationship with God my body is a His dwelling place God then which aspect of my body should I set as exclusively for God? Some part only or the whole body? Check this out.

We will see more in details as we go through each parts of the tabernacle in the next series.

Biblical Sanctuary: Made Simple and Relevant Today

Tabernacle, sanctuary, temple, church they are all synonymous which means “God’s dwelling place”. Where is the this temple now? Why was it discontinued? The temple buildings were given for its purpose for us to understand God’s Plan of Salvation. The building is important though but do building structures need salvation? No, not the temple structure nor the ceremonies in it. It is the human that is most important to God. As it is written, “God so love the world that he gave His only Son. That whosoever believes should not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16) and abolished the corrupted ceremonies that goes with earthly sanctuary (Hebrews 10:19-22; Matthew 27:51)

After which, did you know that the public temple then was transformed into personal one that everybody can have connection with God or that God wants to reside in your very own body. Really that close as opposed to staying in some Holy place at a distant. And to stop corrupt priests, burdensome ceremonies, no more selling and buying of forgiveness and salvation. Did God do this for the tabernacle? No! Was it for the believer? Yes! And what was the tabernacle then for? Ah, that is what we will discover in this series.

Does this “God’s dwelling place” still exists? Do you know where that “temple” is now? After the buildings failed its per-supposed function, it was transformed in to a more personal approach. Then the focus was system-process but it was transformed into personal end-user application. God will no longer dwell in the building structure but will dwell inside your body. Yes, your own physical body! Yes, you are now the temple of God! Yes, God deals with each of us individually and so he declared through his apostle that you, your whole body/being is ‘the temple of God’ (1 Cor 3:16). If that is the case, we are each responsible in managing this “dwelling place of God” to be as He prescribed it, and studying the essence of this “temple body” you will understand the “Plan of Salvation, Justification, Sanctification, Perfection, Faith that works, Stewardship, Baptism, marriage, Sabbath, and foremost is our relationship and Worship of Christ, and God the Father. Yes, it is an “all-in-one’ understanding all aspect sense of our spiritual endeavors.

From Structural to Ceremonial to Mobile

Why was it stopped? It was a magnificent plan for men, but man fall short of obedience to God. God never failed man, but man failed God. Such system even though perfect but was corrupted by sinful men. Hence, the decision for the Son of God to come down and save us, taking all of us out from further destruction. Nevertheless, the tabernacle is one visual aide to help us understand the rudiments of faith and salvation.

The very central point of all is the way each of us worship our Creator and Redeemer which reflects and reveals the degree of our relationship with God the Father and God the Son.

In this series we will study the Old Testament biblical tabernacle, each part, the significance, and essence of each furniture to our spiritual life. Much more we will see how it was made so easy and relevant for us today to help us achieve the “perfection” (Matthew 5:48) Christ gave as a challenge.

This is a 12 part series of study included in the study are visual aids, Bible references, group guide for discussion

What are our objectives for this iWorship series?

How would we approach this study?

What would be the expected impact to each believer and the corporate church?

The materials can be studied as an individual or you may want in group together for each session. There is a summary, an individual reflection sheet, a discussion guide whether you are alone or with a partner or group. You may want also to do the crafts with the teens to help them really appreciate the tabernacle concept.

Looking forward to a spiritual nurturing and growth as we continue to learn more about God’s plan of salvation.

Be open-minded

330 Questions Before Getting Married

by Marvin A. Marcelino

Photo by Gift Habeshaw on Unsplash

Marriage is a pursuit in life through partnership, though they are considered as one person, yet they are still two different people with individual characters, values and aspirations.

Each person has a unique values system (spiritual, mental, social, and physical). These individual values are gained and applied to adapt, survive, and meet life’s goal as individuals and together as a couple.

However, in marriage these values are merged with another person’s set of dissimilar values and beliefs. If this is well communicated and understood in the early stage of a relationship, a high probability of a successful marriage is evident. If not, it is the primary cause or source of most marital conflicts.

Every person undeniably possesses some degree of prejudices to the spouse’s set of values. These values are set aside prior to marriage but reappear during misunderstandings and miscommunications which adds complication to marital conflicts resulting in separation or divorce.

Pre-marital stage is the “drunken stage” where both individuals are emotionally high and nothing else matters but the present emotional state each has for each other (each sees only the beloved with all heavenly clouds of white around). When these emotional states decrease (the smoke clears out and reality sets in) each enters into clear-headedness and realization. Then questions about everything start popping, and at this point any answer is too much to understand.

May this call your attention before you lock yourself into a possibility; marriage is marrying to possibilities, the possibility to goodness or disaster. Ask each other, for you and your beloved to be clear and definite. Couples must search to find out truths and weed out doubts about your partner, for knowing will save you from future headaches and regrets.

To avoid future marital conflicts and regrets the following 330 questions may help one to clarify doubtful and undefined sets of values in some if not all aspects of marriage life.

Warning: you might not want to consider marriage after going through the questions.

About you and your partner to be

  1. How would you describe yourself?
  2. How did you fell in love to each other?
  3. Do you have many ways to show your love?
  4. What do you do that shows you love me?
  5. Are you really in love with this person?
  1. Is it really love or something else? Can you describe it?
  2. Am I a jealous person? Why?
  3. Does each of you have trust issues or feel insecure?
  4. Do I truly and completely know the person I will marry?
  5. What do I really need from this person?
  6. What is your love language?
  7. How will we handle communication?
  8. How can we improve our current communication?
  1. Are you a visual (or auditory, or kinetic) person?
  2. Do you think you listen to one another well?
  3. What is my partner’s (spouse to be) likes and dislikes?
  4. Do you know each other’s emotional intelligence and maturity?
  5. Do both of you know about each other’s past relationships?
  6. Do you have unfinished business with your former relationships?
  7. How many relationships did you have before marriage? What failed your former relationships?

About Marriage /Married Life

  1. How much civil law on marriage do you know?
  2. Can you define the meaning of marriage?
  3. What is your concept of marriage?
  4. When you talk about ‘family,’ what comes first in your mind?
  5. What are your expectations of marriage?
  6. Do you have a marital mission statement?
  7. What is your vision about your marriage?
  1. What is your individual or both goals in life? (long and short term)
  2. Why are you/we getting married?
  3. Am I in a hurry to get married?
  4. Do you have a plan (map) to get into marriage?
  5. Can both name three most important things to you in marriage?
  6. What are both your expectations of marriage to be like?
  7. What do you as a couple want out of marriage life?
  8. What is the main role of the husband?
  9. What is the main role of the wife?
  10. Identify three things that we want to accomplish in the near future.
  11. Identify three things that we want to accomplish, long term.
  12. Why have I chosen you as a potential spouse?
  13. How will we keep our marriage thriving?
  14. What will both of you do in the case that one of you feels the relationship is stale or strained?
  15. Will you both agree to go to counseling if one ever decide not be married to each other?
  16. Do both of you think your relationship will change after getting married?
  17. What do both you think you will still be in love in thirty or forty years?
  18. Will you be faithful to one another, do both of you have the same thought about this?
  19. How much knowledge you have about processing marriage documents?
  20. Can each of you remember the best and worst part of your parents’ marriage?

About Mental/ Physical /Relational Health

Mental

  1. Do both of you think it is important to know one another’s physical and mental health histories?
  2. Do both of you suffer from any allergies, chronic disease or condition?
  3. Will both of you willingly take a physical exam by a medical physician prior to your marriage?
  4. Proper health and nutrition; do both of you place importance about it?
  5. How do both of you support your own health and nutrition?
  6. Can both of you freely talk about sex?
  7. Should both of you talk about sex?
  8. Do both of you comfortable discussing your sexual likes and dislikes?
  9. Do both of you know your expectations of each other’s sexual relationship?
  10. Is there a gap of intelligence between you and your partner? if yes how wide?

Relational

  1. Define mental, verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
  2. How much law on abuse do you know?
  3. How do both of you handle emotional stress? (home, school, work)
  4. How will both of you settle disagreements and differences of opinions? What are your fighting styles?
  5. How do both of you resolve problems?
  6. After the wedding, do both of you think it is necessary to express romantic feelings verbally?
  7. After the wedding, do both of you think that you should express affection in public?
  8. How both of you would express your admiration for someone that you know now?
  9. When someone has you a done a favor and disfavor, how do both of you express each other’s feelings?
  10. How do both of you express your feelings to someone who has hurt you?
  11. If both of you wrong each other, how do you apologize?
  12. If your partner has wronged you, how do you want him or her apologize to you?
  13. How long do you forgive someone or your spouse?
  14. How will both of you balance between life’s important and less important decisions?
  15. Are use foul languages common in the environment your spouse grew up in?(i.e. family, home,  public place)
  16. Do either your friends use foul language?
  17. Does both of your family use foul language?
  18. How do both of you express anger?
  19. How do both of you expect your spouse to understand the anger?
  20. What do both of you do when you are angry?
  21. When do both of you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in marriage?
  22. When both of you have disagreements about trivial matters, how should the conflict get resolved?
  23. What would either of you do if you felt that you are abused?
  24. Would you call the authority for assistance if you were being abused?
  25. Can we both forgive?
  26. Is either of you willing to improve your communication skills to have better and clear understanding?
  27. How will both of you make decisions together?
  28. Do both of you are willing to face the difficult conflicts in marriage and do you try to avoid the problem?
  29. Do both of you think you have problems in your relationship that you need to deal with before your wedding?
  30. Do either of you know how to handle conflict well?
  31. How are both of you different from each other?
  32. Do each of you think about your differences will contribute problems in your marriage?
  33. Do either of you expect or want each other to change?

Physical

  1. Does your partner has any physical disabilities, does it affects you?
  2. Are you both healthy?
  3. Does both of you like physical sports?
  4. Are you hiding any illnesses?
  5. Do you vices (smoking, drinking, drug, gambling)?
  6. Have you ever hit someone?
  7. Do you have a criminal record?
  8. What was your childhood like?
  9. Do you both really like your body fit?
  10. How sure are you accepting how your spouse physical looks?
  11. How ready are you when your spouse physical figure changes?

About Medical/End of Life Issues

  1. Does your partner has any physical or mental illness, does it affects you?
  2. Do either of you or any of our immediate family members have any disabilities or other special needs, medical, issues, illnesses, which might affect your marriage life?
  1. Are you both healthy?
  2. Do you have health insurance?
  3. What medical concerns do both of you have or foresee will come up in the in your genes in the future?
  4. Do you have religious beliefs that will affect medical decisions?
  5. Does your blood type match?
  6. How will we handle pregnancy/childbirth/infertility?
  7. How do you feel about organ donation?
  1. Do you like taking care of a sick person?
  2. Do you have ready account or savings for emergency cases?

Religion

  1. Are you a spiritual person?
  2. What spirituality can you offer your spouse?
  3. Do both of you think that religion plays an important part in your life?
  4. Are both faith and spirituality important in a marriage?
  5. What is your image of God?
  6. Do you both have the same religious beliefs? If not how will you deal with this?
  7. What are you expecting of your spouse with their religious beliefs?
  8. Does your family and church dictate whom you are to marry?
  9. What role does religion take in both of your life and your spouse?
  10. What role will religion take in marriage life?
  11. will you raise your children according to you your chosen religion(s) or your spouse’s? (in case you both belong to different belief)
  1. Will your religion play a major role your life after you are married?
  2. What type of relationships does either of you want to have with the members of your family that does not adhere to your religious?
  3. What is your understanding of your religious marriage?
  4. What is your relationship between yourself and your church community in your area?
  5. Are you volunteering in any religious/social/political activities?
  6. Will your home be an extension of your church?

About Career and Professional growth

  1. Do both of you read? What do you both read?
  2. Do both of you like learning?
  3. Do you see any career goal versus marriage conflict before you?
  4. Do I see a good future if I marry you?
  5. Do I see my dreams fulfilled if I marry you?
  6. How sure and ready are you to give up your career for the sake of your spouse?
  7. Can we each freely pursue our own interests?
  8. Where do you see your career going?
  9. How will we handle unemployment?
  10. Are either threatened by your spouse career advancement and success?
  11. If either of you lost a job today, what do you think both of you would do?
  12. What if either of you had the opportunity to quit your jobs?  What would both of you do?
  13. Do both of you think you could ever go into business together?
  14. How do you want to spend our days off?
  15. What are both your expectations about how to spend your free time?
  16. What life goals for career, family, or other personal success do both of you share in common?
  17. What career goals are either of you having differences? How will both of you work through these differences? How will either of you help each other reaches one’s goals?
  18. What hobbies do each of you has that will affect the other?
  19. Do either of you has ever been convicted or got involved in a crime?
  20. Have either of you held jobs?
  21. What level of education has each of you received?
  22. Do both of you have the same spiritual/political beliefs?
  23. How ready are we for a career change to keep our marriage?
  24. What differences in customs or opinions might both of you face because of these career goals?

About Location/Relocation

  1. Where would both of you like to live? Is it the same with your spouse?
  2. How close would you like to stay to family or in-laws?
  3. Do you have a plan where to settle permanently?
  4. Is there any place you would NOT like to live?
  5. How do both of you feel about travelling?
  6. Where does both of you see your family growing old together?
  7. Are both of you comfortable, if either of you works in another country?
  8. Are you both ready for sudden relocation due to work demand?
  9. If both of you are not living together, what are you going to do with all of your stuff?

About In-Laws and Relatives  

  1. Was your family an affectionate one?
  2. Do both of your parents met or get acquainted?
  3. Do you see possible problems that will with both families?
  4. What values do both of you want to bring from your family into your marriage?
  5. Do you have some likes and dislikes with your spouse’s family?
  6. Do you have some likes and dislikes with your spouse’s parent’s marriage?
  7. Do you have some likes and dislikes with your spouse’s age?
  8. Can you rate how is good your relationship with your family?
  9. Do you have expectations from your relationship with the family of your spouse?
  10. What do you expect your spouse’s relationship with your family to be?
  11. Are both of you comfortable having your in-laws live with you?
  12. Will you allow your in-laws to manage your own marriage?
  13. Will there be anyone in your family who will live with you?
  14. Do both of you think that you will have problems with your family during the holidays?
  15. Are you financially dependent or obligated to your in-laws?
  16. If, for any reason, either of your relationship with your family turns sour, what should be done?
  17. How will both of you make sure you have quality time together?
  18. Can your in-laws provide the privacy both of you needed as a separate family?
  19. How much time will both of you agreed to spend with your in-laws?
  20. Are both of you financially dependent or obligated to your in-laws?

About Resources and Finances

  1. Do you have savings account?
  1. Will you prefer to have a joint checking account or separate accounts or both?
  2. Is a pre-nuptial agreement necessary?
  3. Can we talk about money?
  4. Do you have standing loan before getting married?
  5. Who will be the provider?
  1. Does each of you have your financial goals?
  2. Does each of you have any outstanding fines or debts?
  3. What are your future plans for purchasing a home?
  4. Do both of you know where your important financial documents are located?
  5. What is your definition of wealth?
  6. How do you spend money?
  7. How do you save money?
  8. How much assets do you have (or combined?)
  9. Who pays for what?
  1. Are you both a saver and spender when it comes to money?
  2. How much does each of you owe in debts and what are your assets?
  3. How do we handle our paychecks?
  1. Can you differentiate want with needs?
  2. What are you both expecting from your spouse financially?
  3. Does each of you understand your financial responsibilities in the marriage?
  4. Have either of you started planning for retirement? What happens if you don’t have any?
  5. What if either of you or both suddenly get bankrupt?
  6. How would you deal with family and money crises?
  7. How much debt do each of you have? Is it worth to be into debt?
  1. Do you have any idea or skills how you will manage your finances?
  2. What will both of you do in the event of sudden loss of income?
  3. How will both of you pay your bills, manage accounts, set aside savings, and handle large purchases together.
  4. Do you have, weekly, monthly or yearly budget?
  5. Can you trace where does your money go?
  6. Who will be responsible for making sure that bills are paid on time?
  7. Do both of you support the idea of taking loans to buy something either of you desired?
  8. Do both of you support the idea of a working wife?
  9. If so, how do both of you think a dual-income family should manage funds?
  10. Do both of you currently use a budget program to manage your finances?
  11. Do you know where to get or have your extra money? How would you spend your savings?
  1. Do you use credit cards? Do you really need it?
  2. Do both of you consider going for a vacation every year a necessity or a luxury?
  3. Will your perception about money change after marriage?
  4. Do either of you have any existing debts now? If so, what is your steps in eliminating it?
  5. Are there people to whom you are financially responsible to?
  6. To whom do you go to for financial assistance?

About Sex and Romances

  1. Do you discuss sex topic?
  2. Do you know each others’ likes and dislikes about sex?
  3. Do you know some civil laws concerning sex?
  4. How often both of you want to have it?
  5. Is there anything either of you won’t try or do?
  6. How do both of you feel about alternative lifestyles?
  7. What would either of you like that you both haven’t done/discussed?
  8. How do you both want to grow sexually?
  9. Are you both open to discuss previous sexual relationship with your spouse?
  10. How open either of you to sexual preference as a human right?

Couples/Friends/Social Interaction

  1. What type of relationship do you both want to have with your family or relatives that does not adhere to your culture, and cultural traditions and beliefs?
  2. What differences in customs or opinions might both of you face because of these culture, and cultural traditions and beliefs?
  1. Who are your friends that support your marriage? (Identify at least three.)
  2. How did both of you get to know your friends?
  3. Why are they both your friends? Are your values or beliefs similar to them?
  4. What do both of you like most about them?
  5. Is your circle of friends in good relation your spouse’s circle of friends?
  6. What will be both your relationship with them after marriage be?
  7. Do both of you have friends from the opposite sex? Does your spouse welcome them?
  8. What level of your relationship with them is acceptable to your spouse?
  9. What will be the level of you individual relationship with them after marriage?
  10. Do you want your spouse to have a definite level of relationship with all of your friends?
  11. Are there things that both of you do differently or similarly during your free time?
  12. Are guests welcome in your home for entertainment, does both you love the idea?
  13. When your friends come to your house, what either of you expect from each other?
  14. What is your honest opinion about speaking other languages in your home that one among you do not understand? (with friends or family)
  15. How will each of you handle each other’s families and friends? What Holiday customs will each of you need to honor? What boundaries will be set?
  16. Do you travel? For what? With whom?
  17. How do you personally like spending your vacations with your family?
  18. How do both of you think your spouse should spend his or her vacations?
  19. Do you think your spouse needs time alone? How much? Why?
  20. Do you believe in spouse’s private space? How much space do you need?
  21. What do think about regular greetings to each other? (i.e. after work, when waking up, and when saying goodbye or goodnight)
  22. How often do you think your spouse need to hang out with friends?
  23. What do both of you agree that you keep private about your marriage? What boundaries do both of you need to set?
  24. What gets on your nerves when it comes to friends ______.
  1. How would each of you feel if your spouse a night out with his/her friends regularly?
  2. Do you have secrets that only you friends know that your spouse have no idea?

About Child Care and Concerns

  1. Are you aware of the laws on child’s rights?
  2. Do you want to have children?
  3. How many children do you want?
  4. Are you fond of children?
  5. Are you patient and kind with kids?
  6. Have you both decided how many children do you want to have?
  7. How long should you both be married before having children?
  8. What will you both do if you can’t have kids?
  1. What kind of parent do you think you will be?
  2. Do you both have the similar parenting philosophy?
  3. Will either of you willing to stay home after you have children?
  4. Have you agreed on the type of birth control should both of you practice if you desire to postpone or prevent parenthood?
  5. How do both of you feel about adopting orphans?
  6. Do both of you have any children already?
  7. Do both of you support the idea of utilizing baby sitters and/or maids?
  8. Do both of you want to have children? Agree in number of children?
  9. To the best of both your understanding, are you able to have children?
  10. Should a couple have children in their first two years of marriage? If not, when?
  11. Does both of you believe in abortion?
  12. What does each of you think is your relationship with your children?
  13. What kind of relationship do you have with children’s other parent?
  14. What is your expectation with your spouse’s relationship to the parents of your children?
  15. What is your personal view about the best method(s) of raising children?
  16. Do both of you believe on one best method(s) of disciplining children?
  17. Will how you were raised be similar how you raised your children?
  18. Do both of you agree in ways to discipline children?
  19. Do you know the laws concerning child abuse?
  20. Do both of you agree and believe the same about spanking children? Under what circumstances?
  21. Do both of you agree and believe the same about public school for your children?
  22. Do both of you agree and believe the same about private school for your children?
  23. Are you in favor home schooling for your children?
  24. Do you have definite level of relationship you want your children to have with their classmates/friends who differs in religious beliefs from yours?
  25. Would allow your children to visit their extended family if they lived in another state or country with different culture and tradition?
  26. Do you both have any preferred degree of relationship you want your children to have with all their grandparents?

About Separation and Divorce

  1. Do you know any civil laws provisions about marriage?
  2. What is each your biggest fear about marriage or being married?
  3. What does each of you think about divorce or annulment?
  4. If you both run into marital problems, how would you handle it?
  5. Do you still have any “Pandora’s box”? (i.e. previous failed relationships, past trauma,  family addictions, etc.)
  6. Do you have a contingency plans in case of separation or annulment? What are your parents’ or in-laws plan for your future care?
  7. How would both of you deal with your ex’s in your lives? In case this is a second marriage, how do we deal with your ex/our children/my new step-children?
  8. How would you deal with extended family and the stresses to both of you?
  9. How do you both reconcile any differences in culture and traditions?
  10. What do you think would be your ‘deal-breakers’ to your relationship or marriage?
  11. Do you know about the laws on child custody?
  12. Are you aware of any procedures on marriage litigations?

About House Keeping Responsibilities and Household Chores

  1. Do you like household chores?
  2. How much housekeeping skills do you know?
  3. Will you clean the toilet?
  4. Will you regularly take the trash out?
  5. Have you both agreed how the household chores be divided between you?
  6. Who will do the laundry?
  7. Who will iron the clothes?
  8. Who will cook?
  9. Who go to market?
  10. Who will wash the dishes?
  11. Who will clean the house?
  12. How do we split up chores?
  13. How we will handle holidays?
  14. Who will make the milk in the middle of the night?
  15. Who will change the diaper?
  16. Should working spouse be exempted from housekeeping responsibilities?
  17. Should we have house helpers or housemaid?
  18. Who will manage the remote control?
  19. Who will make the household chores schedule?
  20. Who will wake up at night and change the baby’s diaper?
  21. Who will wake up at night to make the bottle infant milk?
  22. Who will send the toddlers to the nursery/school?

These 330 questions confront some ignored vital marital issues during the stage of courtship, engagement and pre-wedding. These questions seek to decrease the possibilities of marital conflicts at the start. This is a preventive measure to ensure a well deserved partnership. Once the couple ignores any unknown information about his/her partner, these unresolved issues will haunt both at the early post-wedding stage. Any unresolved issues start to destroy the marriage like the rust on the iron. Experienced couples will always say, “It is never a guarantee that marriage is conflict-free, but lesser conflict is a marriage heaven-made.

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